Vive la difference!
Sometimes the place where people get stuck is inside their own bodies, and it can be rough. Few, if any of us, love everything about our bodies. We perceive them to be too large, too short, too old, dark or pale, too hairy, not hairy enough, too fat, wrinkly, wobbly etc. This is probably pretty universal but when a person has a severely distorted view of themselves, and really hates their body, it can cause a mental health condition called body dysmorphic disorder. Body dysmorphia is a very real and distressing anxiety disorder and is usually treated with CBT and/or medication, although some people go through numerous cosmetic procedures to try to “fix” their perceived flaws. Many transgender individuals have a complex relationship with their bodies too, but gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia are absolutely not the same thing. Gender dysphoria is rooted in the issue of identity as opposed to a self-doubt fuelled by societal expectation...